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SpandexUSA
SpandexUSA
posted 3 days ago
Hi all, I am (happily) noticing more and more guys here into spandex + chastity. It is so thrilling to see the unmistakable outline of a cage under spandex. And locking is becoming much more mainstream in general. I know there is a thread here for locktober, but it seems there are enough of us who are locked at other times to warrant a separate thread, hence why I am writing this. I am coming up on a full year locked, and holy shit has it transformed me! Not just physically, but psychologically. I have to think there are others out there in the spandex community who understand this and either have experienced it or may want to know what this feels like. I would love to hear from you, connect, and share. ~ Spandexusa
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Tnglvr
Tnglvr
posted 3 days ago
I too like the look of a spandex covered cock cage…and caged cocks ;) I’ve been playing with self inflicted chastity for a few years. The longest I’ve ever gone is about 8 hours.  I’m curious to hear from guys  about their experiences 
canadianspeedo
canadianspeedo
posted 3 days ago
I enjoy playing with locking up, I’m on day 34, it’s helping me stay focused on my fitness goals this year I’m already down 20lbs.  I like how my locked bulge looks in spandex and when I post photos of it, there’s been very positive feedback. 

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SpandexUSA
SpandexUSA
posted 2 days ago
posted by: canadianspeedo
I enjoy playing with locking up, I’m on day 34, it’s helping me stay focused on my fitness goals this year I’m already down 20lbs.  I like how my locked bulge looks in spandex and when I post photos of it, there’s been very positive feedback. 
  Congrats!  I feel like being locked is a cheat code and it makes me so focused on eating better, on my fitness, etc.  Glad I am not the only one celebrating this benefit!

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speccy
speccy
posted 2 days ago
45 days locked here. Like others, i enjoy how my locked bulge looks in my suits and how other locked bulges look in other suits. Do love feeling my cage through the spandex! Been too busy with work so far but being locked does encourage me to go to the gym more.   

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Tij1
Tij1
posted 2 days ago
You seem like the person to ask! What cage do you use? I want to explore chastity more but the only cages I’ve tried either don’t fit correctly or cause unbearable pain! 

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Rickrick
Rickrick
posted 2 days ago
I like the combination of lycra and chastity 
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unsaved
posted 2 days ago
I've not played with chastity but I'd love to learn more about the psychology. How does it help with goals etc? Maybe you could convert me
SpandexUSA
SpandexUSA
posted 2 days ago
posted by: Tij1
You seem like the person to ask! What cage do you use? I want to explore chastity more but the only cages I’ve tried either don’t fit correctly or cause unbearable pain! 
 On the one hand I obviously understand why so many man report this.  But on the other hand, I have to admit that I have experienced none of this in the past year.  I have to chalk it up to two things: 1. I am lucky, and 2. most men aren't using a proper cage.  I use a Cobra cage from Kink3d.  I started with a size S and downsized twice last year and I am now in a size N.  My ring size is 1.  I have to conclude that a lot of men who try chastity go the cheap Amazon route first and get turned off by the experience of a poorly fitting plastic cage that might as well be made of razor blades.
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SpandexUSA
SpandexUSA
posted 2 days ago
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I've not played with chastity but I'd love to learn more about the psychology. How does it help with goals etc? Maybe you could convert me
 I think the simplest explanation is that it redirects sexual energy toward personal growth and self-discipline.  The temporary spike in testosterone doesn't hurt either.  There is a feedback loop too: the more willpower you demonstrate, the more your overall willpower is revealed and can be applied to achieving new and different goals (diet, exercise, etc.).

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Icognito
Icognito
posted 1 day ago
I’ve often thought about getting a cage too. There are two main things holding me back. Firstly, I’m not sure exactly which cages are best recommended in Germany and how to determine the right size.  Secondly, if you’re uncircumcised, I wonder how you clean your penis whilst wearing the cage and how you manage when you’re in the communal shower after sport? What do you do with the cage when you play club sports and shower in a team togethee afterwards?
flrty
flrty
posted 20 hours ago
posted by: Icognito
I’ve often thought about getting a cage too. There are two main things holding me back. Firstly, I’m not sure exactly which cages are best recommended in Germany and how to determine the right size.  Secondly, if you’re uncircumcised, I wonder how you clean your penis whilst wearing the cage and how you manage when you’re in the communal shower after sport? What do you do with the cage when you play club sports and shower in a team togethee afterwards?
Well the sexy answer I've picked up from erotica is that you have a key holder looking after your keys and part of the fun is the potential of discovery in the locker room and all kinds of resulting and arousing (as much as you can in chastity!) escapades. In reality though, it's probably more about keeping discrete and regularly removing your chastity device so you can keep things clean. 

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aferg
aferg
posted 11 hours ago
posted by: SpandexUSA
Hi all, I am (happily) noticing more and more guys here into spandex + chastity. It is so thrilling to see the unmistakable outline of a cage under spandex. And locking is becoming much more mainstream in general. I know there is a thread here for locktober, but it seems there are enough of us who are locked at other times to warrant a separate thread, hence why I am writing this. I am coming up on a full year locked, and holy shit has it transformed me! Not just physically, but psychologically. I have to think there are others out there in the spandex community who understand this and either have experienced it or may want to know what this feels like. I would love to hear from you, connect, and share. ~ Spandexusa
Your chastity and plug pics are an inspiration to me - thanks so much for posting them! Being caged helps me enjoy the pleasure that my anus gives me without letting me be tempted to play with my cock. My current favourite thing is to lock up my dick and fuck myself with my largest plugs - no cumming, just pure anal pleasure 

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