Fetish started out of necessity
posted 3 months ago
So, as a married man in a sexless marriage I had to find ways to satisfy myself. Masturbating to porn was the start. I always had a spendex fetish before marriage but never told anyone. I would wear speedo at a private part of the beach. In the winter, I would jerk off to porn in my spandex. Even when I dated women, I always would have to jerk off because the women I dated weren't as sexual as I am.
Eventually I got married and while she knows I have spandex, she hates them. So I hide most of my gear and jerk off to porn and sites like this when she isn't around.
At 58, I'm In good shape after 20 years of obesity. Not perfect and basically have extra skin. I do have a really high libido that the wife hates and ignores. So, I take care of my needs early morning before everyone is awake or I go to my secret place that is secluded and nobody knows about.
Anyone have a similar issue as me?
posted 3 months ago
Thank you for sharing this is a great story to tell. Pretty sure is not just straight guys too. It happens to all relationships. We work around it. Congrats on your body, you look amazing! Keep up the work, I need to do the same. Working out that is.
posted by: fitone146So, as a married man in a sexless marriage I had to find ways to satisfy myself. Masturbating to porn was the start. I always had a spendex fetish before marriage but never told anyone. I would wear speedo at a private part of the beach. In the winter, I would jerk off to porn in my spandex. Even when I dated women, I always would have to jerk off because the women I dated weren't as sexual as I am. Eventually I got married and while she knows I have spandex, she hates them. So I hide most of my gear and jerk off to porn and sites like this when she isn't around. At 58, I'm In good shape after 20 years of obesity. Not perfect and basically have extra skin. I do have a really high libido that the wife hates and ignores. So, I take care of my needs early morning before everyone is awake or I go to my secret place that is secluded and nobody knows about. Anyone have a similar issue as me?
posted 3 days ago
posted by: fitone146So, as a married man in a sexless marriage I had to find ways to satisfy myself. Masturbating to porn was the start. I always had a spendex fetish before marriage but never told anyone. I would wear speedo at a private part of the beach. In the winter, I would jerk off to porn in my spandex. Even when I dated women, I always would have to jerk off because the women I dated weren't as sexual as I am. Eventually I got married and while she knows I have spandex, she hates them. So I hide most of my gear and jerk off to porn and sites like this when she isn't around. At 58, I'm In good shape after 20 years of obesity. Not perfect and basically have extra skin. I do have a really high libido that the wife hates and ignores. So, I take care of my needs early morning before everyone is awake or I go to my secret place that is secluded and nobody knows about. Anyone have a similar issue as me?
posted 2 days ago
posted by: GiventhisfetishYea sure do contact meposted by: fitone146So, as a married man in a sexless marriage I had to find ways to satisfy myself. Masturbating to porn was the start. I always had a spendex fetish before marriage but never told anyone. I would wear speedo at a private part of the beach. In the winter, I would jerk off to porn in my spandex. Even when I dated women, I always would have to jerk off because the women I dated weren't as sexual as I am. Eventually I got married and while she knows I have spandex, she hates them. So I hide most of my gear and jerk off to porn and sites like this when she isn't around. At 58, I'm In good shape after 20 years of obesity. Not perfect and basically have extra skin. I do have a really high libido that the wife hates and ignores. So, I take care of my needs early morning before everyone is awake or I go to my secret place that is secluded and nobody knows about. Anyone have a similar issue as me?