First Time jitters!

This Friday I am going out with another guy for the first time ever. I am a tad nervous about it. I am straight but always enjoyed spandex since I wore a pair back in the 80's when my old band played a gig. Since then I was hooked and loved how they felt, and looked. Now, Friday night I am going for a "Coffee and whatever". I don't know where this will lead really but have an inclination as to what he meant. Do I wear something spandex like I normally do under my jeans or just wear something basic and see how it goes? I have never been with a guy in my life and then I met this guy.

Definitely wear some spandex gear! That's the whole point of meetups and I'm sure he'll be expecting it(and wearing some himself). Good luck, Have fun and stay safe! ( let us know how it goes)

I'd absolutely wear some spandex. It's all about managing expectation and being yourself. If you cannot be yourself you're kidding both of you. Do what you like and be yourself, that will prevent disapointments both ways. I wish you an exciting night. Let us know the outcome... ;-)

the same sentiments as with the others, wear some spandex underneath cause you never know you could click with the other person and help you realise why you like spandex in the first place!!! good luck to you matey and as always let us know how you go.

Thanks. I will wear some underneath and hopefully all goes well and he's into it as well.

What type of hot spandex gear did you wear underneath?

I would say it's a total yes to wear some spandex....your meet-up is all about the fetish! You'll feel sexier and he will, too! Perhaps casually bring a small tote with some some of your favorite gear. Such fun to pose, play and try on each others gear.

Good luck, hope everything goes ok! Let us know the details after...

Good luck with your first time. You didn't say you met because of spandex, so I suspect this is more about your first time with another guy and not so much about spandex. Be yourself and wear the spandex, but lower the expectations and focus on making a new friend. If the vibe is right, it will proceed accordingly.

So, how did it go?

Enjoy and wear what makes you feel sexy and good! Hope it went well for you! The first time is so fun but nervy too! Enjoy!

Got stood up. :( Better luck next time.

You will be ready and have some hot spandex underneath for next encounter!

Sorry you got stood up. That sucks. Unfortunately, it's happened to everyone at some point.

Yup...clearly he chickened out. Good for you for going through with your committment!

Guess he was more nervous than I was?

Have you heard anything else from the guy who stood you up?

Nope, not a word. ;(