Hey guys I took the liberty of just a bit of practical enthusiasm into an idea. It’s a little bit lengthy apologise. I’ve made it as concise as I can but it’s regarding a real legitimate meat for everyone in a neutral space. Let me know what you think.
Proposal: Private Spandex Social Meetup (Planning Phase)
Hey everyone —
I’m floating an initial proposal for a private, adult-only spandex social meetup, and I’d really like your input before anything is locked in.
This is not an announcement or a final plan yet — it’s a collaborative planning phase so everyone can be heard and we can shape something that actually feels good for the group.
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🔹 Core idea (open to feedback)
• What: a private, consenting-adults spandex social meetup
• Where: private accommodation (e.g. quality motel block, holiday units, or large house) somewhere between Byron Bay and Brisbane
• Why: to give people a safe, respectful space to feel attractive, relaxed, and seen — offline, not just online
• Who: mixed orientations welcome; respectful, adult-only, invite/screened group
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🔹 Non-negotiables (for safety & respect)
These are here to protect people and expensive gear:
• Private venue only (no public exposure)
• Clean, high-quality accommodation (no rough surfaces, fences, hazards)
• All consenting adults (18+ minimum)
• No illegal activity
• Clear house rules around respect, consent, noise, and privacy
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🔹 What I’m asking from you
Please reply (in the group or DM — your choice) with any thoughts, ideas, or preferences on things like:
• Preferred location area (Byron / Lennox / Ballina / Tweed / Gold Coast / Brisbane)
• Ideal venue type (motel units, holiday park cabins, large house, etc.)
• Group size comfort level
• What would help you feel safe, comfortable, and included
• Anything you’d want considered early so it doesn’t get missed later
There are no wrong suggestions at this stage — this is information-gathering.
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🔹 Next steps (so you know the process)
1. Gather everyone’s input
2. I’ll compile a neutral summary / skeleton plan reflecting what the group says
3. We review that together
4. Then we decide the best path forward — venue type, timing, and scope
Nothing moves forward without group consensus.
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🔹 Final note
This is meant to be affirming, not stressful.
The goal is for everyone to feel:
• respected
• included
• excited
• and proud of what we’re building together
Thanks for reading — looking forward to hearing your thoughts 💬