He’s just not that into you

posted by: newest

There are so many men who message me over and over without a single response from me. What about me not being into them is so hard to understand? Just because we have the same fetish does not mean I’m interested in them. In my view, not sending a message (in response) IS sending a message. This is exactly why i have such hesitation to go to sunsplash or thongers weekend because I anticipate ugly guys thinking their fetish supplants their looks, and that’s just not the case…. I’m sick of the creepy shit I see on this site

posted by: SpandexnCA

posted by: newest

There are so many men who message me over and over without a single response from me. What about me not being into them is so hard to understand? Just because we have the same fetish does not mean I’m interested in them. In my view, not sending a message (in response) IS sending a message. This is exactly why i have such hesitation to go to sunsplash or thongers weekend because I anticipate ugly guys thinking their fetish supplants their looks, and that’s just not the case…. I’m sick of the creepy shit I see on this site

I think there is a better, more PC way of saying this to not come across as a total asshole. There is so much negative judgement around this fetish, sometimes this is the place where people gain their confidence. If you're sick of it, maybe it's time to move on. Just the way you speak, maybe it's best that these men don't hear back from you. It saves them from wasting their time on someone who is ugly.

posted by: newest

There are so many men who message me over and over without a single response from me. What about me not being into them is so hard to understand? Just because we have the same fetish does not mean I’m interested in them. In my view, not sending a message (in response) IS sending a message. This is exactly why i have such hesitation to go to sunsplash or thongers weekend because I anticipate ugly guys thinking their fetish supplants their looks, and that’s just not the case…. I’m sick of the creepy shit I see on this site

posted by: SpandexnCA

posted by: newest

There are so many men who message me over and over without a single response from me. What about me not being into them is so hard to understand? Just because we have the same fetish does not mean I’m interested in them. In my view, not sending a message (in response) IS sending a message. This is exactly why i have such hesitation to go to sunsplash or thongers weekend because I anticipate ugly guys thinking their fetish supplants their looks, and that’s just not the case…. I’m sick of the creepy shit I see on this site

Removing all your pics and switching your information after you posted what you posted…I hope this makes you think before treating people horribly. We are all here to support, not be like you were. That’s all I want.

posted by: 8eight8

posted by: SpandexnCA

posted by: newest

There are so many men who message me over and over without a single response from me. What about me not being into them is so hard to understand? Just because we have the same fetish does not mean I’m interested in them. In my view, not sending a message (in response) IS sending a message. This is exactly why i have such hesitation to go to sunsplash or thongers weekend because I anticipate ugly guys thinking their fetish supplants their looks, and that’s just not the case…. I’m sick of the creepy shit I see on this site

Removing all your pics and switching your information after you posted what you posted…I hope this makes you think before treating people horribly. We are all here to support, not be like you were. That’s all I want.

Oh wow, and pictures posted like years ago. Hopefully that was a lesson in humility.

posted by: SpandexnCA

posted by: 8eight8

posted by: SpandexnCA

posted by: newest

There are so many men who message me over and over without a single response from me. What about me not being into them is so hard to understand? Just because we have the same fetish does not mean I’m interested in them. In my view, not sending a message (in response) IS sending a message. This is exactly why i have such hesitation to go to sunsplash or thongers weekend because I anticipate ugly guys thinking their fetish supplants their looks, and that’s just not the case…. I’m sick of the creepy shit I see on this site

Removing all your pics and switching your information after you posted what you posted…I hope this makes you think before treating people horribly. We are all here to support, not be like you were. That’s all I want.

Oh wow, and pictures posted like years ago. Hopefully that was a lesson in humility.

I doubt it (from what he wrote). I’m not much of a looker and don’t have the greatest of bodies…and couldn’t sit and let the community get treated like this. It’s happened a few too many times to me…

posted by: 8eight8

posted by: SpandexnCA

posted by: 8eight8

posted by: SpandexnCA

posted by: newest

There are so many men who message me over and over without a single response from me. What about me not being into them is so hard to understand? Just because we have the same fetish does not mean I’m interested in them. In my view, not sending a message (in response) IS sending a message. This is exactly why i have such hesitation to go to sunsplash or thongers weekend because I anticipate ugly guys thinking their fetish supplants their looks, and that’s just not the case…. I’m sick of the creepy shit I see on this site

Removing all your pics and switching your information after you posted what you posted…I hope this makes you think before treating people horribly. We are all here to support, not be like you were. That’s all I want.

Oh wow, and pictures posted like years ago. Hopefully that was a lesson in humility.

I doubt it (from what he wrote). I’m not much of a looker and don’t have the greatest of bodies…and couldn’t sit and let the community get treated like this. It’s happened a few too many times to me…

You’re kind and non-judgmental; infinitely more attractive than his simple mildly attractive ass. We need to stick up for our friends here who just want to express themselves without judgement. Getting attention from men you aren’t interested in is a blessing and an honor. Treating these men like they’re substandard scum is disgusting.

posted by: newest

There are so many men who message me over and over without a single response from me. What about me not being into them is so hard to understand? Just because we have the same fetish does not mean I’m interested in them. In my view, not sending a message (in response) IS sending a message. This is exactly why i have such hesitation to go to sunsplash or thongers weekend because I anticipate ugly guys thinking their fetish supplants their looks, and that’s just not the case…. I’m sick of the creepy shit I see on this site

posted by: SpandexnCA

posted by: 8eight8

posted by: SpandexnCA

posted by: newest

There are so many men who message me over and over without a single response from me. What about me not being into them is so hard to understand? Just because we have the same fetish does not mean I’m interested in them. In my view, not sending a message (in response) IS sending a message. This is exactly why i have such hesitation to go to sunsplash or thongers weekend because I anticipate ugly guys thinking their fetish supplants their looks, and that’s just not the case…. I’m sick of the creepy shit I see on this site

Removing all your pics and switching your information after you posted what you posted…I hope this makes you think before treating people horribly. We are all here to support, not be like you were. That’s all I want.

Oh wow, and pictures posted like years ago. Hopefully that was a lesson in humility.

I doubt it (from what he wrote). I’m not much of a looker and don’t have the greatest of bodies…and couldn’t sit and let the community get treated like this. It’s happened a few too many times to me…

posted by: jtalbot812

@spandexnCA dude you are hot as hell..... very nice looking guy..... Some real truth is this.. a person can be hot as an abbercrombie model or calvin klein model all muscled chizzled chest and what not and look super hot in spandex or in a speedo or thong. Truth is.... if they treat others like dirt beneath them based on looks or age or what ever reason.. then that person is a total zero.

posted by: Esxbi45

I agree with this, having had people like that on here, I took my pics down as I felt embarrassed and belittled by them. Posted 1 pic today because I realised reading this that I don’t care what they think and can keep their views to themselves and I block them. If a person of not for you, scroll on, if you message and get no response, then that’s your answer. Everyone is different we don’t all look the same or have the same interested don’t force your views on others because you will never find happiness looking for the impossible

posted by: Weightedbulge

I just have to say how incredibly wonderful it is to see the support in this thread. It reminds me why I joined this site in the first place. As someone who didn’t fit the “typical” physical ideals for this community, it’s nice to know there are people here who are both beautiful inside and out!

posted by: Weightedbulge

I just have to say how incredibly wonderful it is to see the support in this thread. It reminds me why I joined this site in the first place. As someone who didn’t fit the “typical” physical ideals for this community, it’s nice to know there are people here who are both beautiful inside and out!

posted by: Slickskin

posted by: Weightedbulge

I just have to say how incredibly wonderful it is to see the support in this thread. It reminds me why I joined this site in the first place. As someone who didn’t fit the “typical” physical ideals for this community, it’s nice to know there are people here who are both beautiful inside and out!

As someone who has struggled with his weight throughout life, and who's been told outright that I'm "too fat" to wear spandex, I appreciate YOU and others who have also made this such a supportive site. If the OP was trying to amuse himself by trolling the community, I daresay he realized his mistake soon enough. I saw his profile before he scrubbed it. I'll only comment that he was never in any danger of receiving unwanted communications from me. I'm pleased that so many SP members made it abundantly clear that there are certain negative attitudes and behaviors that aren't welcome in this community.