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Xelalies
Xelalies
posted 18 hours ago
What is everyone’s opinion on age? I’m 18 and thought that I’d gain quite a bit of attention due to my inexperience and physique. Has that shifted? Am I in the wrong place? I guess ultimately I’m looking for a mentor or partner but thought I would be easier in this community haha.

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malgyates
malgyates
posted 17 hours ago
posted by: Xelalies
What is everyone’s opinion on age? I’m 18 and thought that I’d gain quite a bit of attention due to my inexperience and physique. Has that shifted? Am I in the wrong place? I guess ultimately I’m looking for a mentor or partner but thought I would be easier in this community haha.
I think it depends on a couple of things - what you yourself are looking for from the site and also what you are offering. Perhaps a few more pics on your profile page will better inform any visitors what you are about and that could start a conversation. Sometimes you have to do a bit of fishing to see if you can get a response. I personally like to see young guys showing off their attributes; they are a reminder of my own younger days. Give it a bit of time before deciding whether to stay or to leave. I look forward to seeing more pics from you. Best wishes, Mal.

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jacklovesspandex
jacklovesspandex
posted 14 hours ago
Just be yourself. Different strokes different folks. One thing I've learned as I got older (which I wish I could tell my younger, unconfident, yet very cute twink self) is that attraction, when you're confident in your own skin, really isn't regidly linear. Like defined and aligned directly to age or body type or looks. You could be a "10" and some guys will not be interested in you. Just keep at it and enjoy who you are and you will find those that enjoy you. 

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Chavladjoe
Chavladjoe
posted 12 hours ago
Everyone is different mate. I do love a twink mind
Ubiquitous
Ubiquitous
posted 10 hours ago
posted by: Xelalies
What is everyone’s opinion on age? I’m 18 and thought that I’d gain quite a bit of attention due to my inexperience and physique. Has that shifted? Am I in the wrong place? I guess ultimately I’m looking for a mentor or partner but thought I would be easier in this community haha.
You got my attention.  😉 I prefer closer to my age but I won't turn down a fellow spandex fetishist. 🙂
Swimmer2004
Swimmer2004
posted 10 hours ago
those of us on here who are younger are different, but not special. we all have our time being young and everything that means, and then mature through the various phases of life. we can be sexy and fun at every age. there are things to appreciate and enjoy and even be inspired by at times, by guys of all different ages.
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spicaa
spicaa
posted 9 hours ago
Just be yourself and enjoy life, so at the end of it you don't have regrets.
Brynmawr96
Brynmawr96
posted 7 hours ago
Nothing beats the real world 

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Mtnspandex
Mtnspandex
posted 4 hours ago
posted by: Xelalies
What is everyone’s opinion on age? I’m 18 and thought that I’d gain quite a bit of attention due to my inexperience and physique. Has that shifted? Am I in the wrong place? I guess ultimately I’m looking for a mentor or partner but thought I would be easier in this community haha.
Generally if I go to your profile and like your pics and then that person doesn't visit my profile after that or not like any of my pics, I assume that person doesn't have any interest in my profile. So I end it there. (unfortunately that it is how the majority of my interactions go). Also, if I get one word responses, that will usually end it too.