New to this, crazy about bulges but confused, help.

How I got into Spandex
Kkevf6
posted 2 days ago
Well I’ve loved bulges in spandex for many many years and loved seeing other men’s bulges, I guess through admiration and wanting to be like they were (impressive). The desire to be like them and have the same has finally driven me to join this site. I am a straight male but I cannot help having desires to look at other men’s bulges and not only want to be like them - but to look at a bulge photo and think what it must be like to grab and squeeze such a lovely looking bulge. What does that make me? The thought of hugging and kissing a man horrifies me and that’s something I can never ever do - but grab a spandex bulge (in thin stretchy white briefs) like through a glory hole or something is certainly tempting! I love getting the praise from you guys as there is no such a site for women to have bulge worshipping desires and comment on photos like on here 😞 I do love women but I can’t help my feelings towards bulges (not their faces or bodies), does that make me bi or just a weird straight guy?
Squash072
posted 2 days ago
It makes you human. Being honest is the only thing that works out. Who cares if you eat pussy or taste cock. Be you, with all the pros and cons. Stop overthinking, life is easy, the human brain makes it hard. Go as far as you like to go, set boundaries and stay close to your needs and wishes. Explore, try out, but don't fall into over analysing...
Kkevf6
posted 2 days ago
posted by: Squash072
It makes you human. Being honest is the only thing that works out. Who cares if you eat pussy or taste cock. Be you, with all the pros and cons. Stop overthinking, life is easy, the human brain makes it hard. Go as far as you like to go, set boundaries and stay close to your needs and wishes. Explore, try out, but don't fall into over analysing...
Thanks for taking the time to reply. I guess your right, maybe I need to chill out a bit and see what happens with my life and my feelings...
8eight8
posted 2 days ago
posted by: Kkevf6
Well I’ve loved bulges in spandex for many many years and loved seeing other men’s bulges, I guess through admiration and wanting to be like they were (impressive). The desire to be like them and have the same has finally driven me to join this site. I am a straight male but I cannot help having desires to look at other men’s bulges and not only want to be like them - but to look at a bulge photo and think what it must be like to grab and squeeze such a lovely looking bulge. What does that make me? The thought of hugging and kissing a man horrifies me and that’s something I can never ever do - but grab a spandex bulge (in thin stretchy white briefs) like through a glory hole or something is certainly tempting! I love getting the praise from you guys as there is no such a site for women to have bulge worshipping desires and comment on photos like on here 😞 I do love women but I can’t help my feelings towards bulges (not their faces or bodies), does that make me bi or just a weird straight guy?
I had similar but the opposite direction.  Always into dudes only then as I got older and explored more I realized I’m attracted to women physically as well.  Discovering new parts of your sexuality can be a mindfuck; intoxicating, horny, scary. For me I had a minor identity crisis when coming to terms with it. So, I totally understand. Totally agree with Squash072 said, explore and don’t get hung up on the labels.  No shame in getting off to dudes too, dudes are amazing.
Last edited: 2 days ago
hard4asiannyc
posted 2 days ago
posted by: 8eight8
posted by: Kkevf6
Well I’ve loved bulges in spandex for many many years and loved seeing other men’s bulges, I guess through admiration and wanting to be like they were (impressive). The desire to be like them and have the same has finally driven me to join this site. I am a straight male but I cannot help having desires to look at other men’s bulges and not only want to be like them - but to look at a bulge photo and think what it must be like to grab and squeeze such a lovely looking bulge. What does that make me? The thought of hugging and kissing a man horrifies me and that’s something I can never ever do - but grab a spandex bulge (in thin stretchy white briefs) like through a glory hole or something is certainly tempting! I love getting the praise from you guys as there is no such a site for women to have bulge worshipping desires and comment on photos like on here 😞 I do love women but I can’t help my feelings towards bulges (not their faces or bodies), does that make me bi or just a weird straight guy?
I had similar but the opposite direction.  Always into dudes only then as I got older and explored more I realized I’m attracted to women physically as well.  Discovering new parts of your sexuality can be a mindfuck; intoxicating, horny, scary. For me I had a minor identity crisis when coming to terms with it. So, I totally understand. Totally agree with Squash072 said, explore and don’t get hung up on the labels.  No shame in getting off to dudes too, dudes are amazing.
Hi, do you want to say to a guy, who looks hot in a speedo- May I put my hand on your speedo? Do you want to see me in my speedo?