posted by: BriannaSatin
I am a straight guy, but I am still fascinated about seeing a guy in spandex. Years ago, 2008 maybe, I saw a guy at the gym encased in dark green shiny spandex leggings, 80s style, and the shine completely appealed to me. Certainly, he was a bit flamboyant and expressing his exhibitionism, and I respect that to a degree. Oh, to be young and fit again. All of my spandex is a little bit tighter on me these days.
I was a lot like you. I used to worry that someone would catch me looking at guys in shiny spandex and ridicule me for it. It took a lot of time, self-reflection, and understanding myself to realize that there’s nothing wrong with enjoying what makes you happy.
I started looking at all the hot guys in spandex here about 13 years ago. I loved the way their bulges and butts looked encased in that shiny, glossy material, but I wasn’t ready to admit I might be bisexual. I kept those feelings pushed down, and with a beautiful wife who still turned me on, I never really explored them any further.
Fast-forward through 20 years of marriage and raising four kids, and I finally came to terms with my attraction to men. After some personal soul-searching, I opened up to my wife and family about my desires. Surprisingly, it’s opened the door to new experiences and brought my wife and me even closer.
You never know what the future holds. My biggest lesson has been that being honest with yourself and the people you love can make a world of difference. Life’s too short to spend it worrying about what others might think. 😊