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CaptainHookNYC
CaptainHookNYC
posted 3 days ago
So yesterday I had a nice webcam session with a guy who’s very active on this site. We both jerked off for a while in g-strings and then I noticed this older gentleman recording me with his phone. I didn’t mind it at the moment, because a I’m already putting my own sexy content out there. What happened after, caught me off guard and kind of made me spiral for a sec. Right after we both came, we said good bye and maybe 30 minutes later I went and wrote him thanks for a great session. Which he then blocked me. So now I’m confused, and I’m just wondering if it has happened to anyone else here, also because he was recording without my direct consent. I’m not fazed or bothered, but mostly confused and wondering if this is something that this guy tends to do. Which in any case, what does it matter? Anyways, thanks for reading! Have a great week.
LycraLover123
LycraLover123
posted 3 days ago
Sorry that happened to you, that's totally unacceptable behaviour. I don't think the majority of guys on here would do that, but there's always going to be people who ruin it for everyone. 

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jossip21
jossip21
posted 2 days ago
Unfortunate to hear. I would encourage to mention this to an administrator. This sounds against community respect. I possibly happens with more, if this person gets away with it. A true fetishist respects "our" community. That person is not here to share our passion (only). Not everybody in the community is that honest or respectful.Perhaps it has to do with "our" hunting / capturing instinct?  I experienced it before once that Skype on my phone (back then) mentioned to me that my "camerapartner" took a snapshot - while I was showing my face while wearing gear in an intimate setting. Since then I blocked him. Strange that you were blocked but possibly to "stay in charge" before you have the chance to block him. I hope you will report otherwise I could happen to more of us.

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Commo
Commo
posted 2 days ago
As someone who likes to show their face and loves seeing other people do the same when in gear, it's sad to hear others can't be trusted even on this site. I would report this person so they can explain what they were doing, as that's a serious breach of trust. Luckily you didn't mind too much, but if someone isn't out, or in an environment where their kink could be personally damaging, this could be extremely distressing. And then people wonder why it's so difficult to make connections online...

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CaptainHookNYC
CaptainHookNYC
posted 2 days ago
posted by: jossip21
Unfortunate to hear. I would encourage to mention this to an administrator. This sounds against community respect. I possibly happens with more, if this person gets away with it. A true fetishist respects "our" community. That person is not here to share our passion (only). Not everybody in the community is that honest or respectful.Perhaps it has to do with "our" hunting / capturing instinct?  I experienced it before once that Skype on my phone (back then) mentioned to me that my "camerapartner" took a snapshot - while I was showing my face while wearing gear in an intimate setting. Since then I blocked him. Strange that you were blocked but possibly to "stay in charge" before you have the chance to block him. I hope you will report otherwise I could happen to more of us.
Yea, so that was my initial thought.  Like I can’t be the only one whom this person has recorded without permission. I’m not sure how anyone else would handle it, since I’m pretty open with my content, but it would be devastating for anyone who finds this community as a safe space. Mind you, we both had a great time. So definitely confused. 

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CaptainHookNYC
CaptainHookNYC
posted 2 days ago
posted by: Commo
As someone who likes to show their face and loves seeing other people do the same when in gear, it's sad to hear others can't be trusted even on this site. I would report this person so they can explain what they were doing, as that's a serious breach of trust. Luckily you didn't mind too much, but if someone isn't out, or in an environment where their kink could be personally damaging, this could be extremely distressing. And then people wonder why it's so difficult to make connections online...
Yea, that’s what I thought too. Unfortunately I don’t remember his account name anymore. The only thing I recall is that he was big into G-strings. Maybe if it happens to someone else, we might be able to figure out how to move forward about it.  Still, not wishing this happens to anyone else. 
aquaman75
aquaman75
posted 2 days ago
Hello. Unfortunately, this has already happened to me. My counterpart then sent me recordings and I was pretty angry. I find simply accepting me without asking me to be unacceptable! What a disgrace! I've become very careful now and with all these new registrations here where new members don't show anything and don't reveal anything about themselves, I don't see this platform as a "save space". Really a shame and keep your head up. Better watch out! 😉

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spandexpartyadmin
spandexpartyadmin
posted 2 days ago
This is completely unacceptable.  CaptainHookNYC, please DM me details so I can take this into my own hands.
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