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HotandHorny65
posted 2 years ago
posted by: ok_i_give
You need to make it easier for us to pay for a premium membership. the way it is now i will never upgrade, just saying give us a simple payment option transaction like via paypal or simple credit card transaction. and watch the premium membership explode as we all want premium benefits, just make it more simple for the non techy types please.
I totally agree with you and would join the premium membership if I could use my credit card.
HotandHorny65
posted 2 years ago
posted by: spandexpartyadmin
Hey all, and thanks for opening this thread! I agree with you. Depending on the country, credit card payments are much more convenient—and to be fully transparent, it also adds a layer of security with charge-backs for the end-user. no question about that. I've been in talks and battling with credit card companies and payment processors for several months (!) now. Since the big regulation revamp 3 years ago¹ the requirement for adult products and websites have drastically changed. It's not about the horrendous fees, I'd be fine with whatever. But one of the requirements from their side is making all users on from our community identify and verify their identity via passport or 3rd party identification services. This is not acceptable and will never happen. I love this community. full stop. And that's why I spent months of getting it back on track and plan on getting it even further! ¹) Maybe you remember when big porn removed Mastercard and Visa payment methods or when PornHub deleted 80% (eighty percent) of all their porn. It does have it good parts for instance it battles revenge porn really effectively. But every other well behaving adult site suffers from this. On the other side, costs need to be covered to keep the Spandex Party going. I know that many aren't comfortable or happy with bank deposits. I'm also researching and talking with alternate earning possibilities that doesn't involve exposing or selling our user data to others; so we get closer to cover the costs. E.g. I don't want to plaster the site with irrelevant ads that only annoys us in the end. I could see collaborations with big gear companies and give special discounts for Spandex Party users and let them know (Wrestling suits, Cycling gear, Amoresy, Thongs)—I personally would love to hear unobtrusively about these offers. I apologise for the wall of text here but let me try to wrap this up: The longer my back and forths with the credit card companies and payment processors take, the less hopeful I'm become. But I keep fighting for it and layed down how much we can comply with these regulations. If there is any development in this area, I'll let you know immediately. And as always I love to listen to your feedback on here, PM or support@spandexparty.com. Cheers!
Dear Simon, Thanks for all of your hard work at reviving this Spandex Party site, and I and I am sure all appreciate and thank you for your hard. I am so sorry for all the trouble you are having trying to use credit cards to pay for the Premium Membership, but this is the only way that I can join. I have been a Premium member of Spandex Party for many years, and I would so like to be a member again as you have done a spectacular job of creating the new Spandex Party site. Again thank you, and I wish you continued success.

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Bonerman
posted 2 years ago
posted by: spandexpartyadmin
posted by: Bonerman
What about anonymous payment in some crypto currency?
Hey man, I'm right now in talks with more alternative payment options. Crypto is one of them. Plus they don't have the same ridiculous requirements¹ as credit cards. ¹) by ridiculous requirements I mean the fact that they require every user on adult sites to provide identification and verification documents in form of their government ID card or passport along with clear face shots. After the credit card companies did a big policy revamp 3 years ago (remember when Pornhub had to delete 80% of their entire porns?—that's because of this). It has good parts, e.g. revenge porn and children safety. But yeah, it's a two sided sword.
Thx for checking out this! It would be great for those of us that are absolutely not shy about showing off our private parts and our sexy gear, but never would subscribe to a site like this or a porn site in a way that need us to identify :-)
Bubblebum
posted 2 years ago
posted by: HotandHorny65
posted by: spandexpartyadmin
Hey all, and thanks for opening this thread! I agree with you. Depending on the country, credit card payments are much more convenient—and to be fully transparent, it also adds a layer of security with charge-backs for the end-user. no question about that. I've been in talks and battling with credit card companies and payment processors for several months (!) now. Since the big regulation revamp 3 years ago¹ the requirement for adult products and websites have drastically changed. It's not about the horrendous fees, I'd be fine with whatever. But one of the requirements from their side is making all users on from our community identify and verify their identity via passport or 3rd party identification services. This is not acceptable and will never happen. I love this community. full stop. And that's why I spent months of getting it back on track and plan on getting it even further! ¹) Maybe you remember when big porn removed Mastercard and Visa payment methods or when PornHub deleted 80% (eighty percent) of all their porn. It does have it good parts for instance it battles revenge porn really effectively. But every other well behaving adult site suffers from this. On the other side, costs need to be covered to keep the Spandex Party going. I know that many aren't comfortable or happy with bank deposits. I'm also researching and talking with alternate earning possibilities that doesn't involve exposing or selling our user data to others; so we get closer to cover the costs. E.g. I don't want to plaster the site with irrelevant ads that only annoys us in the end. I could see collaborations with big gear companies and give special discounts for Spandex Party users and let them know (Wrestling suits, Cycling gear, Amoresy, Thongs)—I personally would love to hear unobtrusively about these offers. I apologise for the wall of text here but let me try to wrap this up: The longer my back and forths with the credit card companies and payment processors take, the less hopeful I'm become. But I keep fighting for it and layed down how much we can comply with these regulations. If there is any development in this area, I'll let you know immediately. And as always I love to listen to your feedback on here, PM or support@spandexparty.com. Cheers!
Dear Simon, Thanks for all of your hard work at reviving this Spandex Party site, and I and I am sure all appreciate and thank you for your hard. I am so sorry for all the trouble you are having trying to use credit cards to pay for the Premium Membership, but this is the only way that I can join. I have been a Premium member of Spandex Party for many years, and I would so like to be a member again as you have done a spectacular job of creating the new Spandex Party site. Again thank you, and I wish you continued success.
Simon - i echo all of the previous comments in thanking you for taking the baton and this site to the next level and keeping this community together. I would happily pay my part to keep this ball rolling in a positive direction. If we could pay via Venmo in the US, that would be a huge help. I’m not trying to get around the verification points but i just don’t want my card statements marked up with charges that display my fun fetishes like spandex gear and bulge thongs (that would be a good one to explain to my CPA!). I’m always very happy to supply thoughts and feedback about the site, its configuration etc but cognizant that you’re receiving a LOT of thoughts from people here. For now, just saying well done and any ease for fairly anonymous payments would be great.. Thanks! BubbleBum

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spandexpartyadmin
posted 2 years ago
It really means a lot to me to see you supporting the community! I also understand that the current payment model is not optimal (or final). But that doesn't mean this is the only way to support the community. Being kind to newcomers, engage with others, maybe reveal that secret where you get your hot gear from, ... It's all part of it, not only the transfers. Of course, it's what pays the bills and I can't pay services and hostings with wrestling singlets and thongs haha We're just at the start. Things can change, regulations can change and new options can arise. I'll keep pushing on that front and if something changes I'll let yall know.
SaintSemaj
posted 2 years ago
Thanks for the newly designed website! it’s excellent and fun! Couple of Quick suggestions for the “guys near me” section: 1. can we sort by last seen? Some of these guys haven’t been on the site in many years. 2. Is there a way to search for local guys better? Not sure the answer to how but I know there must be more members near me in SF, they just don’t show up. Thanks Again!
spandexpartyadmin
posted 2 years ago
1. can we sort by last seen? yes that makes totally sense. 2. Is there a way to search for local guys better? I added a small step in the right direction here, but the "guys near me" needs a complete overhaul. Regarding the small step, you can search for "san francisco" in the dating tab under location—but you also need to check "Include offline users" under profile. then you'll see only active members in that location: https://spandexparty.com/dating/online-members?page=1&with_offline=1&city=San+Fran

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Ubiquitous
posted 2 years ago
Alas, my credit union says they only do wires for business accounts but someone here suggested using wise.com to send payment. I haven't had time to investigate further, but is PayPal an option?
Bubblebum
posted 2 years ago
Wise is very good - legit company, you just need to set it up.

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Ubiquitous
posted 2 years ago
posted by: Bubblebum
Wise is very good - legit company, you just need to set it up.
I just need the time to do it! Luckily, this big project at work is ending soon.
ulysse
posted 2 years ago
Hi ! thanks for all efforts you make for maintening alive this community ! I understand how difficult it becomes with (necessary) rules to protect children and from sex revenge biut, for instance, hox is it possible to pay with paypal on fitcasting, that is not exactly made for children, and not here ? Or how is it on onlyfan (I don't use it, so I don't know...) ? Anyway, great job !

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Bubblebum
posted 2 years ago
Hey can we get a few of the user stats back and more readily available to us all? I was thinking about Pics viewed Pics cum Profile views Profile follows Pics with most comments How many posts made by users How many hours users have been logged in That way they can be searchable and ranked…nice to have pics ranked on ‘likes’ but it might be nice to have a few additional metrics
cplethng
posted 2 years ago
Hi. Is there any solution for profile payment in the pipelines? I can't do a monthly international bank transfer but really want to be back to being a paying member.

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TightLycra22
posted 2 years ago
What’s the story ? I want to Upgrade I think , where’s my account ? Can’t fun anything
spandexpartyadmin
posted 2 years ago
posted by: cplethng
Hi. Is there any solution for profile payment in the pipelines? I can't do a monthly international bank transfer but really want to be back to being a paying member.
Yes, I'll move mountains to get this working in 2-3 weeks from now. I agree, the nature of non-subscriptions and x-monthly manual payments is not optimal. It'll make everything much easier on the premium user's side and on my administrative side, too.
posted by: TightLycra22
I want to Upgrade I think , where’s my account ? Can’t fun anything
You can the Premium plan and perks on https://spandexparty.com/membership. as just mentioned I'll be adding more payment methods in 2-3 weeks.

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Number29
posted 2 years ago
Great to hear about the additional payment options being added.
Cyclingskintight
posted 2 years ago
posted by: spandexpartyadmin
posted by: cplethng
Hi. Is there any solution for profile payment in the pipelines? I can't do a monthly international bank transfer but really want to be back to being a paying member.
Yes, I'll move mountains to get this working in 2-3 weeks from now. I agree, the nature of non-subscriptions and x-monthly manual payments is not optimal. It'll make everything much easier on the premium user's side and on my administrative side, too.
posted by: TightLycra22
I want to Upgrade I think , where’s my account ? Can’t fun anything
You can the Premium plan and perks on https://spandexparty.com/membership. as just mentioned I'll be adding more payment methods in 2-3 weeks.
Looking forward to hearing about your ideas. I appreciate that this is a challenging area
cc8556
posted 2 years ago
Just saying, feels like we should all be grandfathered into the premium version of this site if we were members beforehand.

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Deleted user
posted 2 years ago
posted by: cc8556
Just saying, feels like we should all be grandfathered into the premium version of this site if we were members beforehand.
completely agree. I feel used.

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spandexpartyadmin
posted 2 years ago
posted by: cc8556
... if we were members beforehand.
Are you talking about 'Premium members'? If not, it's quite unfair to newer users—don't you think