posted by: shop42
posted by: Slickskin
posted by: Marky374_Almere
Little bit tight at the moment :-|
If money is scarce, perhaps your time would be better spent focusing on the necessities like food, rent, and utilities. You already appear to have an extensive collection of swimwear. It's terribly presumptuous to expect others to purchase nonessential items for you. Most people budget for fetish gear purchases if they can't initially afford to buy them right off.
Funny , I never thought a post of mine would gain ground here...However, not sure if money is tight or not.. and I read the points people made of asking for someone else to supply spandex for another; there is a group of people who enjoy providing for another's kink. There can be a bond they feel, or even an indebtedness that has an effect with both participants- and this may be what Marky_374 was after , but I do not know. Some one else may express this idea, or kink/fetish better. I come from a place of accepting all kinds of interests.
That's absolutely your right to place that interpretation on it. The OP did plainly state that money was tight for him. Most logical people with reasonable intelligence prioritize their needs by urgency. Another swimsuit ISN'T URGENT.
It's also profoundly entitled to assume others somehow _owe_ you, and have vast sums lying idle to buy fetish gear for a complete stranger.
AS HAS BEEN STATED, had the solicitation been for medicine, rent, or food, it would be a different matter.
It's just incredibly tacky to assume other people are simply untapped monetary resources to finance your fetish. If you're "adult" enough to be online, you're also old enough to pay for your own fetish gear.