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Everybody is different and there's no right or wrong answer, but for me, I went slowly, though it was made easier because I was in sports - swimming and running, where wearing something spandex was just a part of it. Then wearing it at home, to the gym, and for other activities like hiking and rollerblading where spandex might not be mainstream, but it wasn't unusual either. Then, stopping on errands going to and from my activities, still wearing my spandex. Eventually, getting to be ok with wearing it casually, out and about, like I would wear shorts or jeans or track pants, to places where it was appropriate, like errands or going on walks or hanging out on beach boardwalks, etc.  I don't usually wear spandex openly to school or work or social events or dates, or anywhere it would just be weird or inappropriate or would make people feel uncomfortable. I've just never been the kind of person who says I gotta be me and fuck everybody else and whatever they think. Good luck on your journey and have fun! You've come to a great place full of kind, understanding, and supportive guys who went or are going through or are considering the same thing. ETA: As anxious and self-conscious as you may feel sometimes wearing your spandex out and about, what you're eventually going to realize is that most people aren't going to give you a single thought or second glance. They simply don't care. Probably the hardest part of your journey is going to be getting your head to that point.

Yes. I agree that first or second glances do not matter. What matters is being whole and complete in your own mind and body. Spandex is a second skin and it should be one with your own. 

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I always liked spandex without knowing why I liked it.  I saw guys in the gym wearing light grey Ron Hill tracsters and liked the bodies and the bulges and started wearing the same type of gear.  My confidence built from there and now I wear meggings/tights at the gym, commando apart from usually a cockring. And of course a shorter T shirt LOL

I finally got past my Speedo issues by going to a nude beach. No one cares what you are wearing at a nude beach, so "coming out" in a Speedo was not a big deal. After that, it was easy to be more bold publicly in other types of gear. 

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Like others I started going in public but walking/running outside in spandex. Then to build my confidence I wore my workout spandex to run errands. Began by getting gas, then going to a grocery store near a gym. It was so exciting. When I got real comfortable, I’d replace regular pants with my spandex disco pants and wear them out. Keep going!! It’s a thrill and feels so good to do/wear what makes you feel good. 

c'est super de sortir en ville habiller en spandex, j'aime cette sensation du tissus sur ma peau, j'en met souvent en voiture pour aller me promener, aller dans des surpermarchés, quelle sensation de sentir le regard des autres !

Great stuff. That’s me to a T. Also wear cock ring with no underwear with tights. I wear leggings, lycra shorts and tights most days when I’m out and about! 

I bought my first pair of Lycra shorts many years back. Must have been the early 80’s.  I had always been a speedo guy singe being at school. I got used to wearing lycra shorts on hot days when I was going to swim at parties or outings. Most people were skimpily dressed for such occasions.  It just became more natural for me to wear them and for the people around me to see me in them. I had a friend who asked where I got them from and the next thing he was wearing them too! It’s now totally not a thing for me to wear tights or lycra shorts as everyday wear with a cock ring and no underwear.  The thinner the material the better as it shows more detail! My advice is to just go out there and wear them… after the first or second time it’s no big deal.

I totally agree.  I love going out in skintight spandex, especially when I can feel people eyeing my ass or my package.  It makes my cock so hard and horny!!