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How I got into Spandex
condmbrekr
condmbrekr
posted 3 months ago
Can tell you how my tastes evolved, from seeing women in spandex, to wearing it myself, to enjoying seeing men in it too. But women are still my first choice. And sexually, the best way I can put it is "I am not attracted to men, only to cocks and cum." When I see a hot man I'm imagining (rarely, more than just imagining it) him fucking my girlfriend while I watch, not imagining him fucking me. When I receive oral he either needs to be smooth and semi passable or I need to have my eyes shut. If I squeeze or spank a shapely ass I'm imagining it is a woman's (and spandex to hide the hair and enhance the shape helps the illusion.)
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posted 2 months ago
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spandexpartyadmin
spandexpartyadmin
posted 2 months ago
I applaud you that you look past labels 💪 sexuality is not a clear line. we have quite a lot straight guys on here that love to exchange gear inspiration or experiences with others. keep it horny 😈

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zac69
zac69
posted 2 months ago
A fit smooth body in nice lycra female or male is nice to look at. 

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Lycra-cycle
Lycra-cycle
posted 2 months ago
I’d have classed myself as a straight guy and have been for several decades. Getting into tight Lycra and amoresey type bodysuits has been a life changer however and I admit that I love to see a fit guy in tight Lycra or pantyhose (especially if sporting a boner) as much as seeing an attractive girl in the same. A few tactile Lycra to Lycra encounters and deep snogs with cock to cock grinding has only served to  awaken a lust for life and get my senses going into overdrive. 

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unsaved
unsaved
posted 2 months ago
<raises hand> straight here. But I was into Lycra  long before I was into girls: if you're wearing dancewear or zentai (or both ... mmm) I am turned on no matter what your gender.

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Speedo_Summer
Speedo_Summer
posted 2 months ago
"Mostly straight" here. Spandex, speedos, tights, cycling gear, etc had been a huge turn on my whole life. Both men and women. Love the fetish I got and try to live it as much as I can. Outside the fetish? Definitely girls. As soon as I put the spandex on anything goes and it's been so far so much fun. I guess the fetish runs very deep :) I don't know if it makes any sense but I stopped asking questions a long time ago. I just unapologetically enjoy it whenever the right chance shows up.

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MessyShinyLycra
MessyShinyLycra
posted 2 months ago
Another straight guy here who loves wearing spandex 😀

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kevy191960
kevy191960
posted 2 months ago
As an older guy here, I’m also straight and have had many relationships with women over the years, including one long-term one. But I found that as I got older, the women I dated around my age hated me wearing Lycra or even just tight sportswear. In fact, the last woman I dated forbade me to wear it — even on my bike! Well, that didn’t last long. So that’s drawn me a bit closer to men, not that I’ve had any real experience with men yet, apart from maybe some online chatting. So maybe I’ve drifted into being Bi. But I still love seeing women in tight leggings, Lycra, etc. My long-term partner Becky — a good-looking ginger with long, neat hair in plaits — liked running, and we would often go out together dressed in tight sportswear. We even had some bedroom fun around it as well. But sadly, I’ve never found anyone like her since, and it seems the older one gets, the more women hate it on men! Or maybe that’s just my bad luck. Kev.

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silkysnake
silkysnake
posted 2 months ago
thanks for all the input everyone, i see that there's a range of replies, but many of the replies confirmed my theory that there is indeed a loophole for (many, but not all) straight guys into homosexuality via spandex (if they have a spandex fetish) and that's no small detail, because that's a loophole into another world 

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bob20978
bob20978
posted 2 months ago
Becky sounds like my my ideal gal :) Athletic redheads are my kryptonite. Would love to see a (lycra on, non-face) pic of her if you have one :D
posted by: kevy191960
As an older guy here, I’m also straight and have had many relationships with women over the years, including one long-term one. But I found that as I got older, the women I dated around my age hated me wearing Lycra or even just tight sportswear. In fact, the last woman I dated forbade me to wear it — even on my bike! Well, that didn’t last long. So that’s drawn me a bit closer to men, not that I’ve had any real experience with men yet, apart from maybe some online chatting. So maybe I’ve drifted into being Bi. But I still love seeing women in tight leggings, Lycra, etc. My long-term partner Becky — a good-looking ginger with long, neat hair in plaits — liked running, and we would often go out together dressed in tight sportswear. We even had some bedroom fun around it as well. But sadly, I’ve never found anyone like her since, and it seems the older one gets, the more women hate it on men! Or maybe that’s just my bad luck. Kev.

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Swimmer2004
Swimmer2004
posted 2 months ago
posted by: kevy191960
As an older guy here, I’m also straight and have had many relationships with women over the years, including one long-term one. But I found that as I got older, the women I dated around my age hated me wearing Lycra or even just tight sportswear.
Nothing against women, and I realize the danger of making broad general statements like this, but if there's one thing I learned early on, it's that they don't understand our fetish, or any clothing fetish at all. They may enjoy wearing leggings or other spandex for some functional purpose like working out, or because its comfortable and makes them look sexy, but it doesn't give them pleasure or arousal like it does us, and they don't understand it. And at least here in the USA, they've railed against "men in speedos" or wearing spandex forever, except at best, tolerating it under very limited circumstances like cycling, competitive swimming, running, and such. Unfortunately, that mindset has become pervasive in our culture, and short or tight clothing on guys, particularly spandex, is perceived as feminine or gay or weird. & sorry, I don't mean to be taking this thread off topic.
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silkysnake
silkysnake
posted 2 months ago
posted by: Swimmer2004
posted by: kevy191960
As an older guy here, I’m also straight and have had many relationships with women over the years, including one long-term one. But I found that as I got older, the women I dated around my age hated me wearing Lycra or even just tight sportswear.
Nothing against women, and I realize the danger of making broad general statements like this, but if there's one thing I learned early on, it's that they don't understand our fetish, or any clothing fetish at all. They may enjoy wearing leggings or other spandex for some functional purpose like working out, or because its comfortable and makes them look sexy, but it doesn't give them pleasure or arousal like it does us, and they don't understand it. And at least here in the USA, they've railed against "men in speedos" or wearing spandex forever, except at best, tolerating it under very limited circumstances like cycling, competitive swimming, running, and such. Unfortunately, that mindset has become pervasive in our culture, and short or tight clothing on guys, particularly spandex, is perceived as feminine or gay or weird. & sorry, I don't mean to be taking this thread off topic.
i agree with your observations many women definitely love spandex on themselves, but not to a fetishistic degree it's one thing to love the way it looks/feels, but it's something else to NEED it sexually, and for us, i would say it's a NEED, while for them, at most, it's a WANT, an optional bonus and regarding the general distaste women have for men in spandex, hmmm a man covered in spandex isn't really sexually compatible with a naked women, his penis becomes inaccessible in the way she requires, i think they see it as a barrier to sexual engagement as for men wearing spandex in public, if we boil it down, i think it's due to the man's penis outline being clearly visible i'll admit, it is a bit unsavory if you think about it in the context of it being visible to children, because in public, that's inevitably what their primary concerns involve i suppose i suspect they don't mind it if a cup is worn, e.g. ballet, or like in the live action spiderman movies, they always wear a cup to reduce the penis outline into a benign mound
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O2BnSF
O2BnSF
posted 2 months ago
I'll weigh in on this topic as a senior (old) gay man. In my experience, gay men can be the absolute worst about this stuff. If a straight man so much as brushes against a penis (in spandex or not) or makes a harmless comment about one, half the gay community breaks out the rainbow alarm system and declares him gay gay gay. And don't even get me started on how some gays treat bisexual men. Many act like being bi is just the warm-up before diving into the deep end of the homosexuality pool. We ask the straight world to understand what it means to be gay, yet we sometimes forget to offer the same grace to people who live anywhere else on the spectrum. Life is short and you don't owe anyone an explanation for what turns you on. Wear what you want, touch who you want (with permission) and love who you want.  When you are on your death bed, those people who you modified your life to please will probably not be by your side.

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kevy191960
kevy191960
posted 2 months ago
posted by: kevy191960
As an older guy here, I’m also straight and have had many relationships with women over the years, including one long-term one. But I found that as I got older, the women I dated around my age hated me wearing Lycra or even just tight sportswear. In fact, the last woman I dated forbade me to wear it — even on my bike! Well, that didn’t last long. So that’s drawn me a bit closer to men, not that I’ve had any real experience with men yet, apart from maybe some online chatting. So maybe I’ve drifted into being Bi. But I still love seeing women in tight leggings, Lycra, etc. My long-term partner Becky — a good-looking ginger with long, neat hair in plaits — liked running, and we would often go out together dressed in tight sportswear. We even had some bedroom fun around it as well. But sadly, I’ve never found anyone like her since, and it seems the older one gets, the more women hate it on men! Or maybe that’s just my bad luck. Kev.
Sorry, guys, I did not want to mislead anyone here. I have the utmost respect for women. And like I was trying to say, I very much respect their views on not liking guys in tight Lycra even for doing sports over a certain age. Thsi was just from my own fidings. I have always tried my whole life to treat both men and women with the utmost respect and be kind and caring. I'm sure there are older women out there who don't have a problem with us guys wearing this gear, say and maybe would even like to join in! I sometimes like to wear tall boots with skinny jeans or cord trousers or even leggings. The funny thing is out, and about, I have had quite a few compliments, always from women! As opposed to funny looks from guys! 
silkysnake
silkysnake
posted 2 months ago
posted by: kevy191960
posted by: kevy191960
As an older guy here, I’m also straight and have had many relationships with women over the years, including one long-term one. But I found that as I got older, the women I dated around my age hated me wearing Lycra or even just tight sportswear. In fact, the last woman I dated forbade me to wear it — even on my bike! Well, that didn’t last long. So that’s drawn me a bit closer to men, not that I’ve had any real experience with men yet, apart from maybe some online chatting. So maybe I’ve drifted into being Bi. But I still love seeing women in tight leggings, Lycra, etc. My long-term partner Becky — a good-looking ginger with long, neat hair in plaits — liked running, and we would often go out together dressed in tight sportswear. We even had some bedroom fun around it as well. But sadly, I’ve never found anyone like her since, and it seems the older one gets, the more women hate it on men! Or maybe that’s just my bad luck. Kev.
Sorry, guys, I did not want to mislead anyone here. I have the utmost respect for women. And like I was trying to say, I very much respect their views on not liking guys in tight Lycra even for doing sports over a certain age. Thsi was just from my own fidings. I have always tried my whole life to treat both men and women with the utmost respect and be kind and caring. I'm sure there are older women out there who don't have a problem with us guys wearing this gear, say and maybe would even like to join in! I sometimes like to wear tall boots with skinny jeans or cord trousers or even leggings. The funny thing is out, and about, I have had quite a few compliments, always from women! As opposed to funny looks from guys! 
it really is the strangest thing how women have a general distaste for men in spandex it's not as bad, but it's almost comparable to the distaste they have for men wearing women's lingerie, though that one makes sense logically  if i had to guess why women cringe at men in spandex, i suspect it's because women view men symbolically, whereas men view women objectively what i mean is, when a woman judges a man and anything he is/does/wears, she weaves meaning/sentiment/association/intent/status into her judgment whereas a man judging a woman will probably just judge how attractive she is based on markers of youth, symmetry, fertility and health, and how sexy her clothing choices are by how tight/shiny/short/revealing the garments are so if a woman is displeased with the meaning she associates with a man's fashion, then she'll dislike it, even if it's aesthetically pleasing    so then the question becomes... what are they negatively associating with men in spandex? THAT is where the answer exists....
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AlexaB
AlexaB
posted 2 months ago
posted by: kevy191960
As an older guy here, I’m also straight and have had many relationships with women over the years, including one long-term one. But I found that as I got older, the women I dated around my age hated me wearing Lycra or even just tight sportswear. In fact, the last woman I dated forbade me to wear it — even on my bike!...........
This seems to be a problem in different countries.  In my area, there have always been men in spandex, leggings, and crossdressers. I'm very involved in the scene and see the opposite. In the '80s and '90s, it was completely normal. (Aerobics, the futuristic movies)  That's precisely why it's somehow more normal among us "older" people than for the later generation. Yes, in the explicit scene, it was somewhat more "normal." I've worn spandex, Lycra, and tight jeans since I was a teenager. Maybe I was laughed at once, but that's about it. And I can't say that women reject it. So far, it's always been accepted. I'm going to get a lot of hate now: Maybe it's the outfit in general, or maybe it's because you don't fit into the clothes. When I see people with a very high BMI, they should consider whether it's "attractive." If it's a passion, then it's okay. But please don't be surprised if it's not well-received by others. There are women who are perfectly fine with their partner wearing spandex or women's underwear. There are men who don't mind that their boyfriend wears such things. It's more about finding people who are comfortable with it. Whether gay or straight. My experiences so far have mostly been positive. Sometimes it was rejected, but the relationship held up. In conclusion: I can't confirm that rejection is higher than acceptance. In Germany, we say: Every pot finds its lid. Meaning: Everyone will find their partner eventually.
spandexsoaker
spandexsoaker
posted 2 months ago
posted by: silkysnake
ok, i had deleted the original post because i felt a bit too exposed by it, but since ppl are still responding, i felt i should give a brief summary of what was here umm basically, i myself am, i would say asexual, but since i have a spandex fetish, there's a bit of a loophole into homosexuality if certain conditions are met and so, by that same logic, i reasoned that straight guys who have a spandex fetish might also have that same loophole into homosexuality if the right conditions were all in place
I've thought for quite some time about replying to this and since the conversation picked back up I thought I should add my thoughts. I've enjoyed spandex since I was a teenager and never really thought much about the sexual connotations until I left home.  I married a woman who didn't get into it at all and to be honest made me feel a bit bad about it, but then that was mostly forgotten when she left because I didn't have any money or assets to steal.  Since then, I've bought and worn spandex freely, for a run, on a bike, in bed, in the bath, you name it, anything that turns me on.  I do the whole 'no underwear' thing and am not too worried about showing off since (a) there's not a lot to show and (b) I can cover it with a long t-shirt. Now, on to your points.  Although I really enjoy seeing women wear spandex and can get turned on at the sight of a shiny, crinkle free pair of spandex leggings (women's sport really does it for me, it's a difficult watch in many ways lol) a man can have a similar effect. Since my fetish also involves wet and messy I've been involved with other forums where I've chatted to people, enjoyed stories, chats and online activities; it's always men - women are never there.  I've grown to understand and enjoy this even more and this led me to Spandex Party.  I've really enjoyed being on this site and chatting with other people who enjoy it, and sharing photos (and seeing other people's) is something I enjoy very much.  It's also been great fun to pull on my Amoresy suits and play on cam in the chat room.  Didn't think I'd be saying that a few years ago... 😈 It has brought me to the conclusion that I regret a little not exploring this more in the time between being divorced and getting back into a relationship, because I think I would have had a great time playing in spandex and building my collection.  I think I'd really enjoy going for a bike ride with someone and retreating to their house afterwards for coffee, a piece of cake and to have my cock groped until my shorts are oozing cum.  Perhaps a 10k where we stop after 5, tickle each others balls until there's a patch of precum on each others tights, then we have to keep it there until we get back where we finish the deed off?  Sure, why not. Or maybe a bath where I get tied up in my favourite Amoresy suit, have gunge poured over me until I can't take it anymore, then frosted until the inside is gunged as well?  I'm getting excited thinking about it. So, yes, let's cut to the chase.  Would I be more up for it if I was wearing spandex?  Yes, definitely.  Do I want to get shagged up the arse?  Most definitely not.  Do I want to form a long relationship with another spandex wearing guy?  No, I don't think so.

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Kythonger
Kythonger
posted 2 months ago
Here’s my two cents.  Take it for what you will. THE one power that women hold over men is sexuality. They harness and run with it and use it as they want. When a man tries to do that by wearing something like spandex or a thong or even a bikini it becomes competition for them. If a man and woman are at the beach together she wants to be the one getting all of the attention. If they’re at the gym together she wants to be the one wearing something that accents her body instead of having her guy wear something that is going to take away any attention she would be getting. And there are lots of guys who would look way better in spandex or a thong or a bikini than their female counterparts. Men are emasculated. It was men who wore thongs and gstrings in the first round. Look at models from Physique Pictorial in the 50s. Men’s thong underwear was popular 10 years before it became mainstream for women. It was men who first started wearing crop shirts. All of these things created a level of sexuality in men that is virtually gone now. Women took everything from them and made it their own and then created the stigma that it was gay to wear such things.  Anytime something new comes out that accents a man’s body it’s quickly shunned as being gay and women quickly take it over and make it there own. 
jtalbot812
jtalbot812
posted 2 months ago
   I don't care  what your gender is or gender preference is  or sexuality,     When it comes to choice of fetish gear / attire,     wear what ever you want! Ie spandex,    and what ever else falls under spandex,     Leather,  Rubber,   or  or any other form of fetish attire,        If you have a friend or partner   spouse  whatever floats ya boat     shames you for something you like,    well maybe that person isn't for you.     Simple Truth is this. if people can't accept you for what you like or who you are then the Hell with them. wear what you want to wear,  Be happy with it.  if others don't like it.   oh well.    their problem  not yours....