any straight guys?

posted by: silkysnake

ok, i had deleted the original post because i felt a bit too exposed by it, but since ppl are still responding, i felt i should give a brief summary of what was here umm basically, i myself am, i would say asexual, but since i have a spandex fetish, there's a bit of a loophole into homosexuality if certain conditions are met and so, by that same logic, i reasoned that straight guys who have a spandex fetish might also have that same loophole into homosexuality if the right conditions were all in place

posted by: Kythonger

Here’s my two cents.  Take it for what you will. THE one power that women hold over men is sexuality. They harness and run with it and use it as they want. When a man tries to do that by wearing something like spandex or a thong or even a bikini it becomes competition for them. If a man and woman are at the beach together she wants to be the one getting all of the attention. If they’re at the gym together she wants to be the one wearing something that accents her body instead of having her guy wear something that is going to take away any attention she would be getting. And there are lots of guys who would look way better in spandex or a thong or a bikini than their female counterparts. Men are emasculated. It was men who wore thongs and gstrings in the first round. Look at models from Physique Pictorial in the 50s. Men’s thong underwear was popular 10 years before it became mainstream for women. It was men who first started wearing crop shirts. All of these things created a level of sexuality in men that is virtually gone now. Women took everything from them and made it their own and then created the stigma that it was gay to wear such things.  Anytime something new comes out that accents a man’s body it’s quickly shunned as being gay and women quickly take it over and make it there own. 

posted by: EncasedCurves

posted by: silkysnake

ok, i had deleted the original post because i felt a bit too exposed by it, but since ppl are still responding, i felt i should give a brief summary of what was here umm basically, i myself am, i would say asexual, but since i have a spandex fetish, there's a bit of a loophole into homosexuality if certain conditions are met and so, by that same logic, i reasoned that straight guys who have a spandex fetish might also have that same loophole into homosexuality if the right conditions were all in place

Straight guy here. Love clothing in general but first love was anything stretchy/shiny/bodily enhancing. Not sure if it was NFL football pants or power ranger suits first. Doesn't matter. I have a fetish and it's not weird. It's healthy so long as it doesn't impact your life in negative ways. Like anything else, try to keep it in moderation and you'll feel normal :) But what is normal? Who knows. Just do your thing and love who you are.

posted by: Kythonger

Here’s my two cents.  Take it for what you will. THE one power that women hold over men is sexuality. They harness and run with it and use it as they want. When a man tries to do that by wearing something like spandex or a thong or even a bikini it becomes competition for them. If a man and woman are at the beach together she wants to be the one getting all of the attention. If they’re at the gym together she wants to be the one wearing something that accents her body instead of having her guy wear something that is going to take away any attention she would be getting. And there are lots of guys who would look way better in spandex or a thong or a bikini than their female counterparts. Men are emasculated. It was men who wore thongs and gstrings in the first round. Look at models from Physique Pictorial in the 50s. Men’s thong underwear was popular 10 years before it became mainstream for women. It was men who first started wearing crop shirts. All of these things created a level of sexuality in men that is virtually gone now. Women took everything from them and made it their own and then created the stigma that it was gay to wear such things.  Anytime something new comes out that accents a man’s body it’s quickly shunned as being gay and women quickly take it over and make it there own. 

posted by: silkysnake

posted by: Kythonger

Here’s my two cents.  Take it for what you will. THE one power that women hold over men is sexuality. They harness and run with it and use it as they want. When a man tries to do that by wearing something like spandex or a thong or even a bikini it becomes competition for them. If a man and woman are at the beach together she wants to be the one getting all of the attention. If they’re at the gym together she wants to be the one wearing something that accents her body instead of having her guy wear something that is going to take away any attention she would be getting. And there are lots of guys who would look way better in spandex or a thong or a bikini than their female counterparts. Men are emasculated. It was men who wore thongs and gstrings in the first round. Look at models from Physique Pictorial in the 50s. Men’s thong underwear was popular 10 years before it became mainstream for women. It was men who first started wearing crop shirts. All of these things created a level of sexuality in men that is virtually gone now. Women took everything from them and made it their own and then created the stigma that it was gay to wear such things.  Anytime something new comes out that accents a man’s body it’s quickly shunned as being gay and women quickly take it over and make it there own. 

hi again, i want to comment further on your theory ok, so you proposed that women loath spandex on men because they want to hold a monopoly on sexual power because it's the one power they hold over men and that's a perfectly good theory, because they're (on average) inferior in every physically performative way, speed, strength, agility, explosiveness, endurance etc etc etc but as you said, (in the hetero-sphere at least) women control the sexual power... and one of the ways they maintain that power is in clothing as you said, every way sexuality can be accentuated is celebrated and offered in abundance to women, but denied and shamed in men so while women are allowed to fake up their level of beauty using any and all possible means, men are expected to walk around like prison inmates, hair short, barefaced without a spec of makeup, and in baggy clothes, as if we're potatoes  so they jealously guard the ways in which they're able to level up their sexuality that makes sense, but homophobia from other men makes it a two pronged assault, because not only do women try to dissuade men from wearing spandex, but other men also try to dissuade us because of (as we both proposed) homophobia because spandex is so strongly associated with female attire, men wearing it will come under fire from homophobic men so those two things work in tandem to keep us down, shamed and repressed but like i said in the other post, i have a feeling that there's a third factor... and if i were to take a guess, i'd say... something like hmmmm fear of and repulsion to unwanted male sexual exposure... as we all know, spandex is VERY form fitting, the bottom line being that the male genitals are clearly outlined and here's the thing, even if they actually enjoy seeing fit attractive men in such gear, the acceptance or rejection of a fashion trend takes into account that giving the green light to a trend opens the flood gate to ALL men wearing the article in question, and there's too strong of a net negative in that scenario because there's that saying that women are only actually attracted to 20% of men, which means they'd be forced exposure to the genital outlines of men that turn them off at a rate of 4 negatives for every 1 positive exposure

posted by: Kythonger

posted by: silkysnake

posted by: Kythonger

Here’s my two cents.  Take it for what you will. THE one power that women hold over men is sexuality. They harness and run with it and use it as they want. When a man tries to do that by wearing something like spandex or a thong or even a bikini it becomes competition for them. If a man and woman are at the beach together she wants to be the one getting all of the attention. If they’re at the gym together she wants to be the one wearing something that accents her body instead of having her guy wear something that is going to take away any attention she would be getting. And there are lots of guys who would look way better in spandex or a thong or a bikini than their female counterparts. Men are emasculated. It was men who wore thongs and gstrings in the first round. Look at models from Physique Pictorial in the 50s. Men’s thong underwear was popular 10 years before it became mainstream for women. It was men who first started wearing crop shirts. All of these things created a level of sexuality in men that is virtually gone now. Women took everything from them and made it their own and then created the stigma that it was gay to wear such things.  Anytime something new comes out that accents a man’s body it’s quickly shunned as being gay and women quickly take it over and make it there own. 

hi again, i want to comment further on your theory ok, so you proposed that women loath spandex on men because they want to hold a monopoly on sexual power because it's the one power they hold over men and that's a perfectly good theory, because they're (on average) inferior in every physically performative way, speed, strength, agility, explosiveness, endurance etc etc etc but as you said, (in the hetero-sphere at least) women control the sexual power... and one of the ways they maintain that power is in clothing as you said, every way sexuality can be accentuated is celebrated and offered in abundance to women, but denied and shamed in men so while women are allowed to fake up their level of beauty using any and all possible means, men are expected to walk around like prison inmates, hair short, barefaced without a spec of makeup, and in baggy clothes, as if we're potatoes  so they jealously guard the ways in which they're able to level up their sexuality that makes sense, but homophobia from other men makes it a two pronged assault, because not only do women try to dissuade men from wearing spandex, but other men also try to dissuade us because of (as we both proposed) homophobia because spandex is so strongly associated with female attire, men wearing it will come under fire from homophobic men so those two things work in tandem to keep us down, shamed and repressed but like i said in the other post, i have a feeling that there's a third factor... and if i were to take a guess, i'd say... something like hmmmm fear of and repulsion to unwanted male sexual exposure... as we all know, spandex is VERY form fitting, the bottom line being that the male genitals are clearly outlined and here's the thing, even if they actually enjoy seeing fit attractive men in such gear, the acceptance or rejection of a fashion trend takes into account that giving the green light to a trend opens the flood gate to ALL men wearing the article in question, and there's too strong of a net negative in that scenario because there's that saying that women are only actually attracted to 20% of men, which means they'd be forced exposure to the genital outlines of men that turn them off at a rate of 4 negatives for every 1 positive exposure

Very good points and I totally agree. If women had a penis there would be an abundance of them that would accent it in every way possible by way of clothing and style. Look at breasts and butts for example. For men who choose to wear anything that remotely accents their body and especially their cock, they better be ready to face scrutiny.  Women speak with a forked tongue. They’ll flat out tell you that no man looks good in a thong. But when they let their hair down and go to a bachelorette party with a male stripper in a thong they can’t keep their hands off of him.   The only remotely accepted form of spandex for men is for those who cycle. And that’s just because it’s a matter of function over fashion. Guys on their bikes are also not standing right in front of people while being in full view of potentially showing any outline of their genitalia.  Therefore the approval rate is higher and it has more acceptance. Guys at the gym are expected to wear shorts over anything that resembles spandex leggings. What a dumb fashion statement. I don’t get why they are trying to hide anything.  Get into what being a guy is all about. I wear spandex shorts and leggings exclusively to the gym. That’s it. Nothing baggy. No cover ups. I’ve never had any issues and no one treats me any different. But I’m still “that one guy” in everyone’s mind.  I don’t care. I’m just being me and wearing what makes sense. It’s practical, functional and looks and feels great. I wish other guys would jump on board.  I remember being at a pool a few years ago. I was the only person, male or female, wearing a thong. I looked around at all of the guys and couldn’t help noticing how many of them were rolling their long swim trunks up to get as much sun on their legs as possible. Why not just wear bikini I thought??  There again… they’re afraid of the stigma and in fear of going outside of the norm. 

posted by: Kythonger

Very good points and I totally agree. If women had a penis there would be an abundance of them that would accent it in every way possible by way of clothing and style. Look at breasts and butts for example. For men who choose to wear anything that remotely accents their body and especially their cock, they better be ready to face scrutiny.  Women speak with a forked tongue. They’ll flat out tell you that no man looks good in a thong. But when they let their hair down and go to a bachelorette party with a male stripper in a thong they can’t keep their hands off of him.   The only remotely accepted form of spandex for men is for those who cycle. And that’s just because it’s a matter of function over fashion. Guys on their bikes are also not standing right in front of people while being in full view of potentially showing any outline of their genitalia.  Therefore the approval rate is higher and it has more acceptance. Guys at the gym are expected to wear shorts over anything that resembles spandex leggings. What a dumb fashion statement. I don’t get why they are trying to hide anything.  Get into what being a guy is all about. I wear spandex shorts and leggings exclusively to the gym. That’s it. Nothing baggy. No cover ups. I’ve never had any issues and no one treats me any different. But I’m still “that one guy” in everyone’s mind.  I don’t care. I’m just being me and wearing what makes sense. It’s practical, functional and looks and feels great. I wish other guys would jump on board.  I remember being at a pool a few years ago. I was the only person, male or female, wearing a thong. I looked around at all of the guys and couldn’t help noticing how many of them were rolling their long swim trunks up to get as much sun on their legs as possible. Why not just wear bikini I thought??  There again… they’re afraid of the stigma and in fear of going outside of the norm. 

posted by: unsaved

I'm expecting pushback for posting this, but: some of what I'm reading here is on the verge of resembling manosphere talking points. Ive never heard of anyone who transitioned MtF saying "oh yeah, it's so much better now I have a better salary, don't get talked over in meetings or patronised, can walk home late at night on my own,  and aren't expected to do the emotional labour that men wont do" Sure, some women are bitches. So are some men (thats not aimed at anyone here, just a general observation). 

posted by: condmbrekr

Can tell you how my tastes evolved, from seeing women in spandex, to wearing it myself, to enjoying seeing men in it too. But women are still my first choice. And sexually, the best way I can put it is "I am not attracted to men, only to cocks and cum." When I see a hot man I'm imagining (rarely, more than just imagining it) him fucking my girlfriend while I watch, not imagining him fucking me. When I receive oral he either needs to be smooth and semi passable or I need to have my eyes shut. If I squeeze or spank a shapely ass I'm imagining it is a woman's (and spandex to hide the hair and enhance the shape helps the illusion.)